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friendship advice [November 23rd, 2007 at 6:53pm]

[ mood | blah ]

heyy girls, i'm new to this community and i can really use your help.

back in july of this year i accused my best friend of like 18 years of stealing something...now this was the first time ever that she has stolen anything, but i regret accusing her because she actually DIDN"T steal.... i had gotten home late at night from being out with her and my mom was waiting in the garage, angry saying she thinks (name) stole some pills from her... let me just say at this time in july we were getting ready to move and trying to sell our house and my mom really wasn't herself, so it could've been my mom lost them somehow and just figured someone stole them.. soo of course i believed my mom who is also my best friend and i basically wrote my best friend a nasty message saying all kinds of mean stuff, when i really should've just confronted her and asked first, but i'm dumb whatever... i really would like to be friends with her again, and she hates my mom now too which kind of sucks cause i've always been there for her and so has my mom... this year has been the worst year ever... i now live in florida, not because of my best friend and i... but people have been saying oh now you live somewhere else there is no point in being friends with her again cause you won't see her. when that's totally not true... we had such a good friendship where we always promised eachother to go to the same college (we did that), we would go to eachothers weddings and all those corny things that friends do... i made this ONE mistake and i don't want that to throw this friendship away.. yeah we kind of fight a lot but it's not out of HATE ya know??? i know i want to apologize, but i'm just wondering what exactly i can say... i have a problem of not thinking before i speak OBVIOUSLY (and she knows that)... there is a right way to apologize and wrong way to apologize... so i just want it to be right... i did write her a letter that i actually sent by email instead ( this was a few weeks after the fight) and she of course said she doesn't think she can ever be friends with me and like my mom again because we're "bad people"--- i'm sorry but that's really harsh, i guess i KINDA deserve that.... but trust me when i say i've always been there for her and so has my mom- so i kinda take that to offense.

so please i beg of you help me out. don't think i'm a mad person because of this, i'm really not... when i said i want to apologize and make things right between her and i i'm being really genuine and i mean it... i hope you girls can help me 


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Quote [November 7th, 2007 at 11:05am]

[ mood | artistic ]

I was reminded of this by the previous post:

"Gorgeous women really annoy me.

Not all gorgeous women. Some gorgeous women I like a lot. Gorgeous women who like me, for example, I can't help but find attractive. Gorgeous smart women, I like a lot. But the rest, I can't stand.

The problem is, as I see it, is that a sad percentage of gorgeous women just settle for being gorgeous. They get to sixteen, go "Well, I'm gorgeous, people like me, that's it," and just stop. I mean, they've got nothing on the girls who struggle onward with zits and bad dates, the girls who fight life every step of the way so by the time they're twenty they're funny and smart and cynical and utterly, utterly desirable.

That's what I like."

-"Syrup" by Max Barry
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It's approaching-- [October 24th, 2007 at 5:08pm]

[ mood | bouncy ]

Oh gawd.
What are you guys being for Halloween? I need some serious inspiration to strike.

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I'M AWESOME!!! [May 13th, 2007 at 1:50pm]

[ mood | accomplished ]

Okay. So me and Alex broke up about a month ago. He said he was too immature for a relationship. I've been really upset and sad and trying to move on, but it's hard to do that because he was my first real life crush, kiss, date, boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. So I was upset to see it all end after about 3 months.

Anyway. About a week ago, I found out this new girl at work - Megan - said Alex was texting her. And I didn't care really. I have a nunch of guys' numbers from work so I thought nothing of it. Then Meg says he's asking really personal questions and one was if she was a virgin. Then she said he asked her out and said he liked her a lot and wanted to be her boyfriend.

SAY WHAT!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

Oh, my God. So mad. So terribly mad. You have no idea. That was the exact same way he went about getting me. I was pissed off at him and heartbroken. Then I realized that me and Megan are like the exact same type of girl: Nerdy, funny, short kinda chubby and kind of tomboyish. Then I started wondeering if Megan really was a virgin and if Alex was just a cherry popper. I mean he did it to me and it looked like it was happening to Megan. I didn't want her to come in to work 3 months later heartbroken the same way I was.

So I called her and told her everything and warned her. I told her she could date him if she wanted, that I had no problem at all with that. But to just keep her guard up. Go slow and test him.

Then I called Alex and totally scared the shit out of him OH MY GOD IT FELT SO COOL TO BE A PSYCHO HOSE BEAST SERIOUSLY.

Me: Alex?
Alex: Kayla?
Alex: ... Whaaaat?
Me: I. Saw. Your. Texts.

And then Alex hung up on me! I caught him! But what's better is I saved Megan cause everything I told her he said to me, she says he said to her.

So, to sum up. Alex is a cherry popping asshole. Megan is saved. ME and Megan are best friend and text constantly. I'm a psycho hose beast and totally movedon from that smalled dicked motherfucker.

Raise the roof, y'all this is girl power! lol

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[February 15th, 2007 at 4:47pm]

what's the best way of getting over a broken heart?

i dated the only boy i've ever loved (and am still in love with) in october-november. i had known him since i was 6 yrs. old and had loved him for some time. we had a crush on eachother for about 5 months before we "went out". we still had feelings for eachother after we broke up (even though i thought he'd moved on, since he continued to date someone else). then, on christmas eve he told me that he loved me and i said that i was afraid that i knew i would come back everytime, but he said he would keep coming back. we lost contact for about a month, and when i started talking to him again, he was dating a different girl. he's saying "i love you" to her after a few days, which means i know it means nothing at all and he did the exact same thing when he dated someone else after we broke up. so, i'm wondering if i should wait for him again. i can't seem to get rid of my feelings and i know it'd be worth it if i did. but for now, i'm just trying to keep my feelings from getting any stronger and we're staying friends, as always.
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help me :[ [December 28th, 2006 at 1:12am]

[ mood | mad ]

i have two issues.

1: i've been getting my period once a month, but it only hangs out for approximately one day. and there's hardly any blood, like... if i change my tampon three times a day, only one of them has a normal amount of blood. also, after having my period for 9 years, it's STILL irregular. i never have any idea when it's coming. is that normal?

2: i get HUGE breakouts at random times during the month. it'll be clear skin for four or five days, and then BAM! ten zits on my chin and one really huge one right on my cheek. wtf? i know this is a common question, but i reeeeeeally can't live with this. it's bad looking with or without makeup. i exfoliate, moisturise, and wash my face, but it's still the same. also, right under my nostrils and sometimes on my chin, my skin looks really flakey even after moisturising. suggestions?

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Bras! Cheap... [December 24th, 2006 at 8:14am]

[ mood | curious ]

When is the Victoria's Secret Semi-Annual Sale?

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[August 18th, 2006 at 12:35am]

how old were you the first time you fell in love?
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A song for all of us. [July 27th, 2006 at 9:24am]

[ mood | tired ]

This is one of my favourite songs. It's from the early 90's, and I feel that we can all relate to it somehow.

The Sweater - Meryn Cadel.


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Question about the pill [July 26th, 2006 at 12:39pm]

[ mood | confused ]

I got put on it like three weeks ago, how long do you have to wait before having unprotected sex? And if you are like 30 minutes late does that count against you on taking it? I missed it by 30 minutes last week and yesterday like 10, will it make it not work just by that short period of time or does it have to be like an hour or more?

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